After Sunday’s gathering at Custer State Park I asked myself the same questions I had recently read concerning church family. “What does it take to have a genuine connection with God and with his family? How do you get to the point where you know and are known, love and are loved, receive help and give help? How is this possible when you and everyone around you are so busy and so scarred by sin?”
In John 15:12 we find that God wants us to love one another. We read this verse and think we understand, but what does loving one another mean to God? Perhaps some other verses of scripture will help us understand. Galatians 6:2 says we are to “Carry each others burdens.” So loving others involves becoming close enough to them to know what burdens they carry. I think we can safely say that to love one another is to help with the load of life.
Well what else does love one another mean to God. In Ephesians 4:32 we find some more components to what it means to be involved with others. It says we are to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other.” So if I am understanding things right, in order to be kind I must be near to a person. To show compassion I must be involved enough with them to know how to show that compassion. Finally I see here that we are to forgive each other. Well obviously I must be involved enough in others lives that there are going to be differences of opinion about things and that those differences will lead to conflict. That conflict must result in my forgiving others or their forgiving me. That is if I am to love one another.
I think I can conclude that to love others is not just a touchy feely type of a relationship. It must move from a simple hand shake on Sunday morning to some real work at being in community with those around me in the body of Christ. It must mean that I cannot stand at a distance and be a spectator. I am required by Jesus to love one another and that means work. Relationships are work. If you think that they are not you are going to find out quick that they are. You have to work at relationships at work, in marriage, at school, and yes at church. So we must invest our lives in people who like us are flawed and sometimes downright annoying. The reason is that in order to understand our Heavenly Father and have a deep relationship with Him, we must be genuinely connected to the body. Only then can we see who God really is. Only by becoming involved with others can we know and be known. Only by working at relationships in the church will we become truly alive in Christ. If we are to ever have a great body of believers then everyone who is a part of this body must work at learning who their brothers and sisters are.
When we plan church gatherings they are designed with this in mind; “Help the people connect to each other.” Only by spending time with different people who are at different levels in their Christian walk, will we be able to help them move forward in their walk with Christ and be helped ourselves in the same way. We can then put into practice all the other ‘one another’ verses in scripture and flesh out God’s great commend to love one another.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us to “..encourage one another and build each other up,”” That is what this is intended to do. I encourage you to get involved with each other in small groups, Sunday School, corporate worship, and by attending the church gatherings we have from time to time. This is where we will learn and grow together.